4th Annual Gingerbread House Tea Party

I’m so excited to share one of my FAVORITE posts of the year. We hosted Blakely’s 4th Annual Gingerbread House Tea Party last weekend. This Christmas tea party always kicks off the magic of the season for us.

There are twinkling lights, gum drops, sweet little giggles, gingerbread houses, sugar cookies, icing and sweets galore!

Gingerbread House Tea Party by Pizzazzerie

If you’re new to Pizzazzerie, my Mom is the Gingerbread House QUEEN. She’s been making them  – in her same signature style – for over 40 years. She hosted gingerbread house tea parties for me growing up and now we get to do the same for my daughter, Blakely! We started when she and her friends were just 2 years old. It’s our favorite Christmas tradition. 

Pizzazzerie Gingerbread House Tea Party
Gingerbread House Tea Party
Pink Gingerbread Houses

Each year, we try to change up a few elements of the tea party so there is something new for the girls to see. I have the links below for the past years so you can take a look. For example, last year we had personalized gingerbread girl cookies at each place setting. This year, we added mini gingerbread houses and a gingerbread house Christmas tree. 

I need to share photos of the 1st annual Gingerbread House Tea Party (on my to-do). The girls were just 2 years old and they all helped decorate one large gingerbread house that we set up in the lobby of a Nashville children’s home to bring some magic to the children. 

Gingerbread Houses Party

I’ve shared lots of the details of this year’s Gingerbread House Tea Party so read through if you have questions, but if I don’t answer them then leave me a comment below!

Gingerbread House Tea Party
Gingerbread House Tea Party
Pink Gingerbread House Tea Party

Do you make the gingerbread houses?

The number one question we get asked is whether or not we make the houses. YES! We make semi-homemade gingerbread houses that can withstand lots of royal icing and sweet candies.

Over the years, we have found that having the children begin by constructing the houses ends up taking a bit too long and many of the children just want to get right to the fun part –  DECORATING their gingerbread houses. 

Make Your Own Gingerbread Houses (+ Royal Icing Recipe/Tips)

So many of you have shared pictures of the houses you’ve made following our tutorial – we love it!

So my Mom has always made these houses with graham crackers and thick, ruffled royal icing. They’re ready to decorate when the girls arrive! 

Pink Gingerbread House Tea Party
Pink Gingerbread House Tea Party
Gingerbread House Icing

We purchased about several of these icing decorating tool from Amazon to use for these houses. They work well and can withstand the thick royal icing for these houses!

I HIGHLY recommend using this tool as the plastic piping bag is just too messy for the job. We quickly refilled these with extra icing (that we keep in the kitchen covered with a damp cloth) whenever anyone ran out of icing.  

Pink Gingerbread House
gingerbread house invitation!

Where did you get the party invitations? 

This year’s Gingerbread House Tea Party invitations came from Dogwood Hill. We embellished each one with a tiny red bow! 

Gingerbread House Tea Party
Gingerbread House Tea Party
Decorating Gingerbread Houses
Pink Gingerbread Houses
Gingerbread House Flowers

Tablescape Details

Down the center of the table, we place lots of pink nutcrackers, trees, pink and red rose and a larger gingerbread house on a pink cake stand! We also added a pink buffalo check ribbon (here’s a similar runner) down the center as a sort of table runner for a pop of pattern. 

We also use weave these twinkle lights throughout the table! They’re not too warm white or cool white, they’re just perfect, and their battery pack is small so it’s easy to hide. There are 6 in a pack, and I use them in her room when the party is over. I LOVE THEM! 

Pink Gingerbread House

Each girl has her own house to decorate. We always place the larger houses on a decorative paper plate. We had extra of these gingerbread house plates, but it appears they are no longer made. I even tried to each out to the company, but no luck. I will keep looking, however! A solid pink or red, striped, polka dot or other fun pattern would do the trick as well! 

I did find similar gingerbread house napkins! And I’ve saved ALL my Amazon finds for this party HERE!

They help keep things organized because they keep candy on the plate and off the floor. Any candy that falls off the house usually lands on the plate. It’s just a much easier method than putting the houses directly on the table! Plus, they’re cute!

Gingerbread House Tea Party
Mini Gingerbread Houses

Mini Gingerbread Houses

This year we added a sweet mini gingerbread house (perfect for their dolls) on a cute pink cake stand!

We have Blakely’s now sitting with her pink nutcracker collection in her room! We made the houses in a similar fashion to the larger ones. Instead of graham crackers, we used these petite buerre biscuits. You could use a similar type of “tea cookie” as well. 

How to Make Mini Gingerbread Houses

Tiny Gingerbread House

We used mini candies and cut gumdrops in half to make smaller versions for these sweet mini houses. We also used a smaller icing tip to achieve the same ruffled edges as the larger trees. A small pink bow on top is the finishing touch!

Gingerbread House Tea Party

Candy Tips for Gingerbread Houses

True candy canes and peppermints can often “drool” the red color because of humidity, so we usually opt for other candies (more in the video) that withhold the air better since many of the girls like to display their houses throughout the season. 

I share a FULL CANDY LIST in our gingerbread house video post! I also have a few of my favorite candy finds in my Amazon list here! There you’ll also find links to the cute pink and white striped marshmallows and pink shimmer gum-balls that we have every year! They are definitely the most popular candies for decorating! 

We choose lots of pink and pastel candies to match our pink color scheme. You can certainly recreate this with traditional red and green candies. You can stick to one color scheme or go all out for a multi-colored house! Sprinkles are also a fun addition, and we add them to the roofs of each house! 

Decorating Gingerbread Houses
Decorate Gingerbread Houses

We love to place a big ribbon bow on top of each house! We also make small bows to pass out to the kids to add to their houses. Tiny decorative ornaments from craft stores (mini snowmen, Santas, trees, etc) are also fun to pass out. The possibilities here are infinite and your imagination will kick in as you play around with different ideas!

Gingerbread House Tea Party
Gingerbread House Decorating Party
Gingerbread House Christmas Tree
Gingerbread House Christmas Tree

Gingerbread House Christmas Tree

This year, we added a sweet Gingerbread House Christmas Tree to greet all the party guests as they walked in the front door. The tree was full of mini gingerbread houses (just like the ones at each girl’s place setting) along with gum drops, peppermints, candy canes and lots of darling pink bows!

Mini Gingerbread Houses

The girls ADORED the tree, and we look forward to adding a few new ideas to the tree next Christmas! You can find our exact alpine-style tree here. We find the airy-ness of the tree allows for the gingerbread houses to hang more easily than a full Christmas tree. 

Pizzazzerie Gingerbread House tea Party
Gingerbread House Tea Party

Where are the tables & chairs from?

For the little tables, I love the play tables from Pottery Barn Kids. I actually shoot most of my recipe photos on one that I leave in my office. I let Blakely have another as a “play table”. The little chairs are from Chiavari Chair Co. and we use them a few times of year, and they stack easily.

Gingerbread House Tea Party
Christmas Tea Party
Christmas Party Treats
Christmas Party Treats

After the girls finish decorating their gingerbread houses, they are always excited to get fruit tea and lots of sweet and yummy goodies in the dining room! We always include my Mom’s fudge recipe, ham biscuits, sausage balls, chocolate cupcakes, red velvet cupcakes and more! 

Pink Gingerbread House Topiary
Tea Party Girls

There we have it! I hope you’re inspired to throw your own gingerbread house tea party this year! 

P.S. If you love parties too, add my book to your Christmas list! It’s on sale over on Amazon! And you can find many of my Amazon gingerbread house party finds here

SEE MORE: For our 5th Gingerbread House Tea Party in 2020, we had to get a bit creative! We hosted a “Gingerbread House Tea Party To-Go“!

Thank you to Evin Photography for so many of these magical photos! 


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  1. I want to be invited!! Thanks for sharing so much info and details! Did you use the frosting gun for the icing on the houses? Mine did not look nearly what good! 🤪

  2. Linda de Mestre says:

    So so so adorable! I can’t wait to do this with my grand baby. Thank you so much for sharing 💝

  3. The invited guest look so special for the tea. Possibly future debutantes. A great remembrance for all.

  4. Just Precious!!! This brings back many memories of gingerbread tea parties I used to host for my daughter and her friends!!! Having them actually started my Catering/Event Planning career!!! I am now retired from that career, but still have plenty of tea party supplies!!! Merry Christmas to You and Yours!!!

    1. Aw love that it reminded you of so many special memories!

  5. Mary Evans says:

    This is the sweetest and prettiest party I have ever seen. I know you and your Mom enjoy doing all the beautiful decorations and the adorable gingerbread houses. Those cute little girls look like they are having a wonderful time together. Love you blog as you always have delicious food plus awesome decorations. Thank you for sharing.

  6. I look forward to this post every year. It is simply magical! So much fun and you are creating such magical memories for all the little girls that attend. Everything is beautiful and inspiring. Love it!

    1. Thank you SO much, Dana!

  7. Wow I love all the details of this party! The gingerbread houses are so adorable. I bet the kids loved it!

  8. Hi Do you think the box could be stuck down with icing? Plus sticking the crackers on with icing as I’m scared the kiddies will try and pic things off and eat? They are fabulous, just received my 4 x 4 boxes as I do elf visits each year so this can be added to my activities.
    Best wishes Sharon

  9. Wonderful idea!! Not to steal your thunder but I have done Fairy Garden parties with my daughter’s and granddaughters…they are a lot of fun also!! I was supposed to have a Fairy Garden tea at a tearoom this Spring but the COVID hit…hopefully, next year!! I will suggest this to that same tearoom…

  10. Melissa E says:

    Hi, where did you find the red and white twists you used above the door archway on the large gingerbread house?

  11. Melissa Barrett Griffin says:

    I am going to have a gingerbread decorating party. I have houses assembled but am needing icing for them to decorate with. Can I make the icing pretty far ahead of time and store it in any way without it drying out? Love all your ideas! This is my inspiration :)

    1. You could make it maybe a day before, but not much more as it would get too stiff/dry.

  12. Mary Nancy Wiley says:

    Oh my goodness, I have done a Mother Daughter Christmas Tea for 18 years now! I started this tradition before my oldest was even a year old. Every year the girls take home a tea themed ornament. Now both my daughters have one from each year. Love this tradition!!

    1. I LOVE that Mary Nancy! What a sweet tradition. I love the tea themed ornament idea!

  13. Christina says:

    Beautiful inspiration! I can’t wait to start this tradition with my daughter. I am in the beginning stages of purchasing the items early. Where did you purchase the Christmas tree dessert plates with the peppermint border? Also, do you have any tips on how to store and organize your china and decor sets?

    1. Courtney Whitmore says:

      Hi Christina! Thank you! The plates are my mothers and she’s had them for years, but check for brands like Spode Christmas Tree or Nikko Christmas Tree in their appetizer or dessert size for similar looks! We store our china all over, I have a prop room where I organize mine, but my mom has most of hers in a china hutch (and some in closets, anywhere they can fit, haha). To see the prop room I have, I have photos here: https://pizzazzerie.com/courtney/the-pizzazzerie-prop-room/

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